While most people want to be successful and happy in life, not everyone is able to do so. But what are the skills or life mantras that make successful people stand apart from others? In this article, we explore some laws of maturity one should learn early. Following them in your life can help you be successful and happier life.
1. Control yourself not others
It is often easier to control yourself– be it your emotions, thoughts or actions– than other people. Remember, being in control of yourself will help you take charge of situations and things better. After all, you can only have control over yourself, not others, and that is your karma in life. As Shri Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita, “For him who has conquered the mind, the mind is the best of friends; but for one who has failed to do so, his very mind will be the greatest enemy.”
2. Accept nothing, appreciate everything
Taking favours from others always comes with a heavy price. People often offer things to others, but it is rarely in goodwill. Instead, in most cases they expect some favours in return, which you might not otherwise agree to oblige to. And so, it is always better to stay clear from such situations by not accepting anything from others. Instead politely decline the offers that don’t align with your values and express your gratitude.
3. Do your best and trust the process
Have faith in yourself that you can overcome difficult situations in life, and be successful. Believing in oneself is the first step towards success and happiness. So, learn to put in your 100 percent efforts, trust yourself and the process, and leave the outcome to the almighty.
4. Learn to react less
Learning to react less and responding more is what sets most leaders and successful people apart from the rest. Instead of reacting instantly or losing your temper, it is always better to pause and think before you speak. Having this maturity in life can lead you to greater success.
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Accept people as they are
This law of maturity is something we all should learn early in life. When you expect others to behave in a certain way or want them to do things for you, it will cause sadness. Instead, just people be and their true colours will come out soon. Accept people as they are, and this will you happier and content in life.
6. Choose your friends wisely
Your company determines who you become as a person, as it has a huge influence on your thoughts and actions. And so, if you aim to be successful and happier in life then you should surround yourself with positive and like-minded people. It is aptly said, ‘birds of a feather, flock together’.
7. Stop telling everyone everything
While many people would say that they are your friend, not all of them are your well wishers– and this is the sad reality of life. Unfortunately, many people also derive pleasure by seeing others in trouble. And so, it is better to keep things to yourself and not tell all your feelings and thoughts to others. Remember, not everyone who pretends to be your friend wishes good for you.
